To turn on anyone, you must first make them think that they want to get it on. It is the brain that can trigger a physical attraction. It is the meeting of the minds that can create a bond. If there is one thing that may turn on anyone, it is their brain.
The love drug
Our bodies produce certain chemicals. These include something that is known as the ‘love drug.’ It is oxytocin, a chemical that is released by our bodies during bonding moments such as when a woman is breastfeeding her child. Staring into the eyes of another person in a loving manner may also bring about the release of these chemicals that preceded the sex dating.
But, the fantasy stops right before the climax and during orgasm thought the mind might still register the thoughts as real. The culmination of sensations and the chemicals in the brain go in sync to wipe out every thought of what is actually happening except for the body’s response. There may be a mind-blowing activity that makes those fireworks appear. The worst part about having sex with someone else in mind is that when you come, you might say the name of the other person! Those things do happen and it is such an epic fail!
There are a few sexy thought that does turn on most women such as:
Having oral sex. There was a study about the top fantasies of women, and the results showed that oral sex was one of the favorite ones. If you think about it, it might not seem to be a fantasy as giving and receiving oral sex happens often. However, it is the submissive service that sets it apart from sex acts that are mutually pleasurable. If the oral sex is done using a 69 position, it is mutually pleasurable, without the kinky dynamic.
Having sex outside the bedroom. It is a big turn on to think of sex dating in different places such as in an office while lying down on a desk being taken from behind. Getting fucked on the kitchen table might be the fantasy to recreate the scene from that movie of the “Postman Always Rings Twice.” Rolling on any sandy shore might be her way of imagining that she is at the Halona Beach Cove from the movie scene “From Here To Eternity.”
Being dominated. Women like to be pegged down and banged hard while in the missionary position. You can add an extra element to it with ties or simply by holding her hands up and spreading her legs out wide. Every woman likes to be fucked by a strong man who dominates her with his body, is it in the missionary position or for that entry from the side.
When sexy thoughts happen, a woman can get wet without anyone touching her private parts. There is no need to stimulate her any further as she will have that itch to play around. Though some women will find a way to masturbate with a gadget to give in to their libido, there are those who prefer to find a mate for some live action.